Fabrizio
09-29-2002, 04:17 PM
I think this post I added on another topic deserved a topic of its own... Let's see if anyone is following me...
Reading what has been written over here, I get the feeling that American guys and Russian women just don't seem to interact very well, to be honest with you all, it seems to me that many Americans are looking for this perfect family-oriented woman, who can dedicate 100% to them, good tradition and so on...
On the other side we have many intelligent and actually keen woman who really look for genuine love, maybe because their experience haven't been positive in Russia, and we all know we look outside the window when we're deceived to see if there's anything different.
The problem is that some other women are actually trying to escape their situation, and they may in some cases take advantage of their influence over tender-seekers, who are just waiting for a woman to tell them how sweet they are and/or how they look forward to be in bed with them...
I believe there is a certain number of these cases, but I haven't got enough knowledge and contacts to tell how many and whether guys should trust Russian women or not.
What I feel I want to tell anyone over here, no matter where they come from, no matter they are men or women, is that sometimes it takes some common sense, and most of all it's honesty which plays the highest role in all these situations.
So, a guy could eventually say he's looking just for some company, just for sex maybe, or he's looking for serious stuff. On the other hand, a woman should make clear whether she will look for love, and not only a comfortable life, because this opens the way to honest communication by both sides, and if intentions are clear this is the first step to be friends (assured friendship is what everything should start from).
And, to finish this long post with a joke, if there are too many Americans over here, Katya, how about this 32 year old Italian? http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif
Bye
Fabrizio
Reading what has been written over here, I get the feeling that American guys and Russian women just don't seem to interact very well, to be honest with you all, it seems to me that many Americans are looking for this perfect family-oriented woman, who can dedicate 100% to them, good tradition and so on...
On the other side we have many intelligent and actually keen woman who really look for genuine love, maybe because their experience haven't been positive in Russia, and we all know we look outside the window when we're deceived to see if there's anything different.
The problem is that some other women are actually trying to escape their situation, and they may in some cases take advantage of their influence over tender-seekers, who are just waiting for a woman to tell them how sweet they are and/or how they look forward to be in bed with them...
I believe there is a certain number of these cases, but I haven't got enough knowledge and contacts to tell how many and whether guys should trust Russian women or not.
What I feel I want to tell anyone over here, no matter where they come from, no matter they are men or women, is that sometimes it takes some common sense, and most of all it's honesty which plays the highest role in all these situations.
So, a guy could eventually say he's looking just for some company, just for sex maybe, or he's looking for serious stuff. On the other hand, a woman should make clear whether she will look for love, and not only a comfortable life, because this opens the way to honest communication by both sides, and if intentions are clear this is the first step to be friends (assured friendship is what everything should start from).
And, to finish this long post with a joke, if there are too many Americans over here, Katya, how about this 32 year old Italian? http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif
Bye
Fabrizio