lossing my trust in Russian women

[kindofcute]

Dear Friends, I have ran into some frustrations while on the internet sights looking for someone to visit and get serious with. I have found that many women will write the same letter to me was well as several other men at the same time. I understand that at the first all letters are the same or a form letter, but when it gets past the thrid and forth letter wouldn't be more serious. In these letters they will tell me that I am the only one or I love you or even I write only you. Then in the next breath they are asking for money. I am finding that many of the women that I have contacted are just out there for my money and that is it. Are there any women over in Russia that are really looking of someone to get to know and marry. I know that this happens, because I have several men that are writing russian women also and we are sometimes writing the same women. Then we find out that these women aren't interested in any of us, but money. I have found several on the Free Russian Dating sight.

Am I just finding all that takers or are there any women over there that are really for real? Is there anyone anywhere who is honest and up front any more? I also wondered if there is a better sight to go to find more honest women?

About to loose hope!!! http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/rock.gif

[katya]

Hi
Now really are a lot of scammers. But normal real woman are too.
Simply you must look at letters, that woman write to you. If letter is * sweet * I am not believe in it. You write yourself, that in second letters they write, that they like you.
And at 3

[kindofcute]

Thank you, Katya, for your reply. I really enjoyed reading it. I also thought that same thing about women that are really fast at getting to the I love you and you are the only one I write. I just have found that there seem to be many women like that. I also know and believe that there are some really good women out there in this world, but they seem hard to find. I also agree that making friends is a very good start and it could take some time to become even a couple. Like I said is there any other good sight to find where the most of the women are more likely to be honest then others?

Thank you!!

[katya]

http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif find good woman you can everywhere. Look, how many girls give their profiles.
As I know , this site aren

[kindofcute]

Hello,

I am back and have some questions for others to talk about. How do we know when russian women are telling the trueth? I am still finding many women who are looking for only money and are telling everyone that they meet that they are only writing them and them only. I often hear women say I love you after a couple of letters, I think that people can have very strong feelings even after a couple of letters or even one meeting. Nevertheless, not all of them. Are all women over there just wanting a hand outs to make their lives easier or maybe there is only a real few that are honest and up front with who they are and what they are looking for. Yes, I guess, my attitude isn't the greatest after spending around a thousand dollars through different internet sights and have come over once to meet someone and she didn't even show up. So I am into around 5000 dollars now. I guess, it is like dating many women here.

I have come to the conclusion that it is a lot like finding a women here in america. Yes, there are many, but it just takes work and what we hear over the different love web sights is only a advertisement just wanting our hard earned money. So working hard on here or there it doesn't any difference it is all the same.

What do you think?

Sincerely,
Me

Sorry to hear about your unfortunate experience, but not everything is as bad as you might think.

Some women simply want to have the chance in life that they never had. By that I mean, find that "significant other" to share their life with and also lots of them would be very happy to work hard and contribute towards their family welfare, no problem. Some women simply sure that if she's got "killer legs", pretty face and "accomodating" - man should pay for such a luxury.

[bat_guano]

Just like anything that really worth doing...this will take a lot of work. Finding a real Russian woman that you can love and marry will take time and a lot of patience. Women have a phrase for this. "You have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find a prince." The same thing is true here.

There are plenty of "anti-scam" and "blacklists" on the internet complete with addresses, phone numbers and pictures. If you are suspicious, check out these sites.

But most of all...if she writes and tells you she loves you and only you after three or four letters...and if she writes and tells you she needs money for a visa to visit you...or she knows more about Western Union than you do...then please do a few things for yourself and others.

1. Get as much information about her as you can and as many pictures of her as you can and then put that on as many scam sites as you can.

2. As soon as you do that, stop writing to her and delete all emails you get from her.

3. Start looking for another woman.

4. Don't worry about form letters from her for the first few letters. Remember, she's looking for a man just as hard as you are looking for a woman. Start worrying if you are still getting form letters 4 or 5 letters down the road. I, myself, use (more or less) a form letter for the first two letters. I do alter it to fit the woman, unless she is not writing me a form letter. Then I start getting personal and writing completely original letters.

5. Don't give all your information at once. Talk in generalities for the first few letters. If she seems sincere, then start giving more specific information. For example, I have written three letters to a woman (name withheld) in Russia. I have told her generally where I live and she has done the same. I have not told her my personal email address (I will soon, I think). She has a son...but she hasn't even told me his name. I think this is a "real" woman, as I think she's being protective of herself and her son right now...AND she's not sending me "form" letters.

I really hope you find a "real" woman. Just protect yourself and don't invest too much emotion before you really get to know her.

[angelin]

The first letter can be for many women. But the second - not. If the woman searches serious for attitudes and will receive the second letter * to make a carbon copy. *, she will not answer you more. What for? It shows, that you write to many women. And you have * standard * the answer to their letters. It guards.
If to you writes scammers, at once stop to answer it . And to ask it is more than photos and more information - it is simply silly. Very much frequently photos undertake from a site. Completely other person also writes.