The game is over [Archive]

safeknight

03-03-2004, 05:49 PM

For yearS on end men have played the game with women
and all you men know the game I speak of.
I am going to break the unwriten rule and talk about it.

Ok the game a man see a women and thinks oh I want that.
1) I need another mark on my bed post.
2) yea the guys will think I am soooooo cool if I nail her.
3)I'm great yes I am soo great (( she needs to hurry up and tel me how great I am ))
4)I want them all .and they need my treat.

and the list gose on and on ... but where is the love ....... no sex dose not count as love ..
better wake up men we are not in the stone age anymore and women know the games you play .... oh you want a little proff of this.

well all the way up until the late 1950s women have had very open heart ... but men seen them as sex .. oh he would tell her what she wanted to hear he might even do a few things to make her happy .. but the end goal was the same SEX he just wanted sex after he got sex he might hang around to get some more at least until another pretty women walked by .... well into the 1960s and up until about 1975 women got more open and this was just great for men becuase then he did not have to wait as long for sex ... but it was still a good thing for a women to stay a virgin until married ...
after 1980 ( more or less ) women got wise the the game because they got tired of being hurt al the time.( in a way they always knew about the game just did not want to stoop to that level of play )
and they started playing it back ...... and it has been back and forth every since ....... but in this game something was lost ............ Love and caring to name 2 things ...

I mean you get in a chat room now or just walking down the street or on tv and people are like ... hate hate hate ,, suck my .. yea punk ... whos your daddy ...... just this kinda talk .... I mean I still remember I time when people cared ......... so now we play the sex game and the hate game ...... ever think that if you was to stop playing games that is would be alot more easy to just live life ?
oh but if you stop then someone might get one over on you ............. well so what if they do .......you can be proud to look in the mirror not because you are so good with comebacks in the crowd that nobody get one on you but because you really are a good person ........ but that would mean you would have to BE A REAL MAN.

give women a real respect and you just might have some for yourself ..... not the fake kind but the real kind.

yes to open up to a women like this dose leave you to open to get hurt real bad if they see it fit to do so .... but after all men did that to women for years and they are still around ..... so are you saying a women can take more pain than you ? ........

MartinUK

03-03-2004, 06:52 PM

safeknight

03-03-2004, 07:33 PM

Safeknight,
I can only presume you are an immature N. American posting such 'short sighted' bullshit as that.
Please, do not think for one minute that more mature different nationalities think like you.
Go back to your chat room little boy and do something to cure the 'dose' you keep talking about.
MartinUK .. In short so you can understand this .. the point of the post is to get men to stop playing the games with women and to just be there self ... in other words stop hurting women.

an you call me inmature ..

looks to me like your just another one of those men (((I use the word men lossly when adding you to them ))) that just need to open his eyes. But that would mean facing what you are.
Women are not sex toys and you should treat them with respect . That is the bottom line of my post

but I am sure you would want me to leave ( as I did tell the secret that gaurds just such men as you )

yea I tested you the first day I was on here and you failed .. and once again you fail ....

the first post I listed ( you know the ones ) go back and with all your might try to read a little deeper into what was said.
I do not think you can ( in fact I know you can't ) understand them to there end but it would not hurt.

but It you want to be top dog in this chat room by all mean do so .........
I myself will stay a MAN.

Ps you can always pick on my grammor

Thunderdome

03-03-2004, 08:17 PM

safeknight,

no doubt you consider yourself a Knight, and you're safe as houses when dating a girl.
At least, that is sort-of what your gobbledygook refers to if I'm not mistaken.

Have you ever heard of following?

- Women give sex for love.
- Men give love for sex.

Up to you to figure out where the common denominator lies. To rattle your brain even further - some say there's no difference in making love or having sex, however they do admit that they love to have sex.

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safeknight

03-03-2004, 08:34 PM

good one bart .... but safeknight is just a name nothing more nothing less my real name is lester my family is from england so my mother gave me a knights name .. but this is still just a name.
now as for your statement of.

- Women give sex for love.
- Men give love for sex.
yes I remember hearing stuff like that way back in high school

be heres a new one to think about

GIVE LOVE FOR LOVE

it is so simple ...why do more people not do it
well here one reason because so many peope that act tough are really scared of getting hurt ( real tough )
then there is the other reason ... so many people have waited so much time learning how to play games that they do not want to waist there ....... shall we say skill.

I do not come here to fuss with you or anyone .. I did not come here to get dates ..
I make my post as just another point of view one that I know in this day and age where so many people live a big lie for a life .. that my post are the last thing they want to hear .....
but the way I see it is that if just one real person gets some good out of it then it is well worth the gripping I will get from the rest .
because as bad as the world has gotten over the years there still some good old fashion real loving and caring people let that do not need to pretend to be something there not .. and those kinda people are who I am posting for .... just so they know that there is people still in this world that understands what it is like to be real .... and have a heart .

MartinUK

03-03-2004, 08:37 PM

safeknight

03-03-2004, 09:20 PM

Safeknight,
You do not offend me because you are so far off the mark such ignorance would normally be unbelievable.
In your case however I can allow myself to make an exception and allow myself to believe you are as ignorant as your posts indicate.
Thank you for wasting your time to explain to me that women should be treated with respect and for reminding me regarding my previous post(s).
Would you care, little boy, to tell me in which of my previous posts I gave any indication that I have a belief that women should not be treated with respect?
I not even going to lower myself any further by continuing to converse with you, as someone else said in a recent post ' are you for real or are you just here to provoke?'
Ok lets review this ....MartinUK ..you say I have ignorance ok fine and you call me little boy .. hey thats find to what ever you need to do ..

I told you to study the first post we had .. well I can understand why this would be hard for you after all it has been almost a week ago since that post.

but I would at least think that it would have made you notice what was in this very post ...

ok simply put you just said ==Would you care, little boy, to tell me in which of my previous posts I gave any indication that I have a belief that women should not be treated with respect? ===
well you should have noticed that part was not in another post but this very post , ok I know you need some help to undestand this now so I will try to explain this as simple as I can.

my post was that men should stop playing games and treat women with respect ..... ( remember that )

ok then you sent your reply and it said===Please, do not think for one minute that more mature different nationalities think like you.

now it should be very clear where I stand .. I think women should be treated with respect and love and you in your hurry to put me down ( just in case it has not sunk in yet ) said ===Please, do not think for one minute that more mature different nationalities think like you.

now think about that. you went against what I said ...so that in itself said you think little of women in other word read a little deeper ( remember that )
oh and another thing ...... did you notice the other thing that shows who has really not got up to speed with the world ......you said more mature different nationalities .. so now you are saying what ? one is better than the other ? well yes you are no matter how you try to get out of it you used the phase " more mature "

look I left the post you was in the other day and now you say you are going to leave mine ..... well that is fine with me .... you go and have you other post and talk about me all you want and I will leave you alone in them and in return leave mine along ..

my post have a place just as yours do ..... and mine comes right out of my head not from books

I do not check my grammor as you know but I get my point accross ( well to people that have a little bit of comon since )

safeknight

03-03-2004, 09:32 PM

well I have said my peace on this topic and how I feel about it .. so there is no more need for me be here ... but I think it should be said that .. not all people are bad so this post dose not go for all people but is just a point of view .. feel free to have your own view but .. and have a good day ... I wish you all good luck in life

MartinUK

03-03-2004, 09:37 PM

Safeknight,
I referred to your previous post as bullshit because you made the mistake of generalising that all men think alike.
You expressed your detailed and immature impression of how men regard women and that is what I described as bullshit.
No-one should ever generalise about any gender, nationality or race, that is where you made your mistake.
You came across as giving the impression that you are the only guy in this world who knows how to treat a woman correctly.
Stop living the American 'dream'. There's a whole world out there that ain't American and in Europe we're a whole lot closer to (eastern) FSU ladies, both geographically and in culture than you are, we're all Europeans!

LeoN

03-03-2004, 09:46 PM

MartinUK

03-03-2004, 10:14 PM

Leon,
I ain't saying nothing ..... smile!

safeknight

03-03-2004, 10:27 PM

[QUOTE= (safeknight @ Mar. 03 2004,23:34)]safeknight is

MartinUK

03-03-2004, 10:40 PM

Point 1:

Why all the talk about the English. Should this be directed towards me I would like to point out that I ain't English.

Point 2:

'Moderator' Nataliya has warned you about getting too deep into politics previously, go to Free Talk.

Tom

03-04-2004, 12:01 AM

Martin,
I may not be remembering correctly, but didn't Nataliya already mention that Safenight's ISP info shows that he is coming from Europe, not N. America? And I highly doubt that English is even his first language.
Lay of us Americans, dammit!!! http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/mad.gif
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Tom

03-04-2004, 12:05 AM

Americans are considered to be ''a catch'' for FSU ladies, but i believe that Europeans are much more closer to these girls, and i m not talking geographicaly.It is the diference between a gentleman and a cowboy.
It is an interesting thing that i have noticed...
You Europeans are always refering to us Americans as 'cowboys', as if it were some sort of insult.

MartinUK

03-04-2004, 07:23 AM

Tom,
Please do not be offended, as I said previously one should never generalise about a gender, nationality or race.
It is said, with dome justice, that the British have an 'island' mentality whereas some, I say some, believe they are world leaders, the world stops once the reach the British coast and they don't even consider themselves part of Europe.
It is observed that some, I say some, Americans have a similar mentality but on a grander scale. They consider themselves to be world leaders, they may never have travelled yet believe the entire western world conforms to the American mentality despite us being continents apart.
I think the crap safeknight posted previously sums it up, quote ' America could rule the world if it wanted to'. Well such a statement was just asking for it but like I say, one should never generalise that an entire nationality are all alike.

liam

03-04-2004, 07:36 AM

G'day

Martin, whats wrong with not feeling like a part of europe? http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/wow.gif why should england be part of europe?, we have a different language, different culture, different history different currency ( http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/tounge.gif ......too all the suckers in germany and france now bailing out the poor .........justice http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif )

theres nothing wrong with nationalism as long as its not zenophobic or exlusive. http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif L

MartinUK

03-04-2004, 08:10 AM

Liam,
I guess I spent too many years living on the continent, seeing UK from a European view and finding myself in agreement with other Europeans regarding the 'English' mentality.
Returning to UK I was not allowed to rent a place to live, to open a bank account, a credit card etc. etc. etc. all because this stupid country swears by these credit reference agencies whereas they could not run a check on me.
I could do any of these I liked in Europe, if UK ask for proof of identity they will not even accept my Luxembourg national identity card!

liam

03-04-2004, 08:18 AM

true martin true england has massive faults! i know that as i was on the receiving end of every piss-poor thatcherite policy ever invented. But i still take massive pride in calling myself an Englishman with every meaning of the word.

L http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif

sean

03-04-2004, 11:37 AM

[QUOTE= (liam @ Mar. 04 2004,08:36)]G'day

Martin, whats wrong with not feeling like a part of europe? http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/wow.gif

sean

03-04-2004, 11:46 AM

liam

03-04-2004, 01:23 PM

Uriah Uriah Uriah http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif

liam

03-04-2004, 01:32 PM

Nataliya!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i'll give you 10.000$ USD if you give me that sneaky fink sean's IPP addy http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif

i really really wanna wack him so hard http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif

http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/tounge.gif http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/tounge.gif [B]L

03-04-2004, 02:28 PM

If 'The game is over'
as the thread says,

who won?
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Nataliya

03-04-2004, 04:14 PM

...but didn't Nataliya already mention that Safenight's ISP info shows that he is coming from Europe, not N. America? ...
Something that is a terribly embarrassing mistake from Nataliya as far as I am concerned !
As an administrator of this board she shout keep private information such as ISP numbers etc. secret.
But I am sure that even she knows that it is possible to log into the net from whatever point of access people want. Specially if they want to keep their privacy. :-)
As far as I'm concerned what is really embarrassing for you is to make ridiculous accusations based on "hearsay" without even reading my so-called "warning". I'd really appreciate if you show me where I "shouted" any kind of private information, such as names, ISP numbers...

I thought that even you know that if someone logs on and write one post straight after the other it's going to be the same IP.
However, when making your speech next time' have, at least a courtesy to check the facts.

My

Nataliya

03-04-2004, 04:24 PM

[QUOTE= (Tom @ Mar. 04 2004,03:01)]Martin,
I may not be remembering correctly, but didn't Nataliya already mention that Safenight's ISP info shows that he is coming from Europe, not N. America?

sean

03-04-2004, 06:28 PM

[QUOTE= (Tom @ Mar. 04 2004,01:01)]...but didn't Nataliya already mention that Safenight's ISP info shows that he is coming from Europe, not N. America? ...
Something that is a terribly embarrassing mistake from Nataliya as far as I am concerned !
As an administrator of this board she shout keep private information such as ISP numbers etc. secret.
But I am sure that even she knows that it is possible to log into the net from whatever point of access people want. Specially if they want to keep their privacy. :-)
As far as I'm concerned what is really embarrassing for you is to make ridiculous accusations based on "hearsay" without even reading my so-called "warning". I'd really appreciate if you show me where I "shouted" any kind of private information, such as names, ISP numbers...

I thought that even you know that if someone logs on and write one post straight after the other it's going to be the same IP.
However, when making your speech next time' have, at least a courtesy to check the facts.

My

mary

03-04-2004, 08:22 PM

Martin UK once again you are damn right.
Americans are considered to be ''a catch'' for FSU ladies, but i believe that Europeans are much more closer to these girls, and i m not talking geographicaly.It is the diference between a gentleman and a cowboy.

Hi cowboy!
Is this room only for men? or women are allowed to be here too? What are you talking about ?
For me there is no any difference between gentlemen and cowboys. I'd like prefer a gentle cowboy !
Yeah you are right about ladies from FSU. American gentlmen are not preferable for us. Mostly women cannot wait for a long time until he comes here and takes me away to his gold country. European men are more mobile . Like a cell phone.
You click him and he is here http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif) Like a gin from a bottle.
Americans, they can only write long emails, they like discussing on idiotic topics and ask you a lot of questions...then they make a long list ( black list ). And I always laugh when try to imagine if I am on the top of this list or not. Yeah, I agree that european men are more preferable.
Hi cowboy!
Is this room only for men? or women are allowed to be here too? What are you talking about ?
For me there is no any difference between gentlemen and cowboys. I'd like prefer a gentle cowboy !
Yeah you are right about ladies from FSU. American gentlmen are not preferable for us. Mostly women cannot wait for a long time until he comes here and takes me away to his gold country. European men are more mobile . Like a cell phone.
You click him and he is here http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif) Like a gin from a bottle.
Americans, they can only write long emails, they like discussing on idiotic topics and ask you a lot of questions...then they make a long list ( black list ). And I always laugh when try to imagine if I am on the top of this list or not. Yeah, I agree that european men are more preferable.

Nataliya

03-04-2004, 10:15 PM

[QUOTE= (sean @ Mar. 04 2004,21:28)]Believe it or not, but I saw your so called

Tom

03-04-2004, 11:13 PM

Well I am sorry for causing this argument...and I wasn't even correct!! http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/wow.gif http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/sad.gif
Sorry, Nataliya, Sean and anyone else....

Perhaps Nataliya could let us know where Safenight is operating from....Just Kidding!!!!!!

MartinUK

03-04-2004, 11:16 PM

There's only one Nataliya, please don't change.

Tom, the answer to your question is a kintergarden.

liam

03-04-2004, 11:44 PM

OK! Martins in Love http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/tounge.gif

watch out though! thunders gonna baffle you to death with intellectual http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/tounge.gif hypothosis seans gonna get his russian supermodel girlfriends to shag you to death http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/mad.gif toms can simply give you a big giant slap and i'm gonna sit under my desk in the foetal position and rock and cry http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/sad.gif

http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/tounge.gif L

MartinUK

03-05-2004, 07:13 AM

And JA is gonna continue shouting!

mary

03-09-2004, 09:05 PM

Game must go on !!!! http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/mad.gif

Thunderdome

03-09-2004, 10:54 PM

....and Sean is continuing to spot Mene Mene Tekel Ufarsin

mary

03-10-2004, 08:56 PM

....and Sean is continuing to spot Mene Mene Tekel Ufarsin
Thunderdome,

....Sean is wanting Tebe or Mene http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/rock.gif

Thunderdome

03-10-2004, 09:20 PM

Mary,

either or - he's spot on

mary

03-10-2004, 09:54 PM

Mary,

either or - he's spot on
JA or BJ http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/rock.gif

Nataliya

03-10-2004, 10:21 PM

Sorry guys, this topic went way off its original subject for a while now and it is now closed.