Advice Help Please

[Randall]

Hello All

I signed up at freepersonals.ru and in the process also placed my own profile and a picture there. I felt the pic could help the ladies I respond to see what I look like and decide a little easier if they are interested.

I responded to two ladies and have yet to hear from them. It has only one day, so I am not concerned they did not reply and frankly if they choose not to, it is certainly their choice.

My dilema is that four ladies have responded to my add in one day. While I am flattered, I am also sincere about meeting one lady and do want wish to get in over my head so to speak.

Is there a way to hide my ad from being viewed?

My only intent in doing so is to have the ability to take this slowly and not get over extended.

Thanks
Randall

[MR.]

in the past i use difrent types of agencies some free and some pay,,most of the free agencies do not work,most of the ladies answering your free ad are lookign for your money,,,when you place a new add whit new photos the first 2 weeks you get a lot of responsese but whit time they go down and afther 2 month you get 1 or 2 or nothing,,,the best way is you to send the email to the girls,,,

[wavetossed]

In the beginning you have to email several women in order to make a choice. Just be honest with them when you reply to them and mention somewhere in your letter that you are writing to several Russian woman in search of someone who is compatible with you. They are doing the same so there should be no problem with this.

I wrote to 20 women at the beginning. Only 4 of them got more than 2 letters from me and then I focused on the one who seemed right for me. And, of course, when I told her this she was delighted. In a way, it's like telling a high school girlfriend that you are going steady with her.

[ramjet555]

Randall,
first, Forget posting your profile, you might as well put it in a bottle and throw it off Halfax Harbour.

Most ladies do not browse the internet. but, professional scammers are highly skilled at that art , it makes them thousands if not more a month.

Nice ladies will pose modestly and I suggest you look in a specific age bracket then look a nice lady who looks like a future partner not some female for arrousal purposes.

Forget all the skimpy outfits and those oozing sexy pictures.

Get some professional help writing your letters in Russian and use a translator. Do NOT use a machine translation and DONT expect ladies to read English.

They say English when they did some at school and have forgotten 90% of that, corresponding in English can be very difficult for them.

Send letters and pictures in the post as well, they treasure these and it builds a relationship.

Dont write to MANY for too long, narrow it down to one lady and develop ONE good relationship not a whole load of them or you will end up getting what you deserve.