Turn-off's [Archive] - Dating Talk

Barracuda

11-14-2002, 06:03 PM

Turn off's

Women that think they are better than everyone else.

Women that expect me to roll out the cash and credit cards for gifts. I believe that gifts are appropriate but giving gifts with no real purpose or filling a need is against my very nature with the exception of birthdays and Christmas.

Women that want things but are unwilling to make the effort to earn these things.

Holding secrets small or large from me. I expect communication. If I screw up then tell me and be tough enough to take it if I feel you are doing things that is inappropiate.

Women that give up on things when there is a path that requires some effort. Lazy, that is...

Women that do not know the difference between having sex and making love.

Women that agree with everything I say or do. I'm not perfect so screwups do occasionally happen. Let's correct them and move on.

Its a short list and there is more for both turn on's and off's but these are the ones that I could think of in a few short minutes.

Barracuda

Jon

11-14-2002, 08:37 PM

Hello Barracuda,

Thanks because you hit some of mine also. I am still mulling over the ones that really get under my skin. I'll try and have my top ten list tomorrow. For now I'm in a good mood because I just spent the evening with my friend whom I haven't had a lot of time for lately. Its always good to spend time with friends.

I do miss my friends and family in America. I don't know when I'll get the chance to see them again. http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/sad.gif

Take care,

Jon

angelin

11-14-2002, 09:22 PM

Hello , Barracuda!
I like that you write. You know, all, that you said about woman I can tell about men http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif
I hate in man haughtiness , when he think , that he is better , then all.
I hate boastful man .
I hate bore man.
I hate irresponsible man.
I hate liar.
I hate ladies

angelin

11-14-2002, 09:26 PM

dear Jon,
I hope , you will meet they soon. They love you and remember about you. It is very good to know, that there is people , who remember about you and wait you all time.

angelin

11-14-2002, 09:38 PM

Jon:) I am fool agree with you. For what rings? If man *love * women , and in first date he will present ring with diamonds, very soon he will be very poor . http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif
So , only after second ( LOL).
P.S. but I have such ring

Barracuda

11-14-2002, 11:46 PM

Hello Angelin,

It is difficult to speak of all the things that are turn off's simply because each and every relation is different. My ex-girlfriend, but still friend, is 12 years older than I but we are both ex-military and very old-fashion. So when we lived together for a short time she could not understand what was it that I expected from her. She moved in took over and was very lazy. didn't help with cleaning, cooking, watching the dog, etc. But she could not understand why after 12-14 hour days I would get upset and not speak to her. I explained to her you live here too and in relationships both share in responsibilities. So she moved out and everything calmed down. I am not hard to live with but as she now understands she did not live up to her responsibilities.

As for being a mother's boy I guess that I do sometimes fit that mold. Every mother is protective of her son and my mother spoke plenty during my last relationship. She has only liked two women I have ever dated. One died in a car accident and the other returned to China and was unable to face me because what she thought she did to me. I do love them both but yet, I am alone and looking again. Maybe I'll find the one searching for me soon.

Barracuda

Maroossia

11-15-2002, 07:23 PM

Turn-off's (looks - physical)

1) A moustache and/or a beard.
2) Piercing (including earrings).
3) Golden teeth (it's for you, Jon http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif )
4) Hairy legs and arms (minor, depends on the rest...)
5) More than 2 jewelry pieces.
6) Ethnical clothes.
7) Thin voice.
8) Long hair.

There's more to follow about manners, habits and behaviour in general...

Jon

11-15-2002, 07:50 PM

[QUOTE= (Maroossia @ Nov. 15 2002,22:23)]Turn-off's (looks - physical)

1) A moustache and/or a beard.
2) Piercing (including earrings).
3) Golden teeth (it's for you, Jon http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif )
4) Hairy legs and arms (minor, depends on the rest...)
5) More than 2 jewelry pieces.
6) Ethnical clothes.
7) Thin voice.
8) Long hair.

There's more to follow about manners, habits and behaviour in general...

katya

11-16-2002, 06:04 AM

[QUOTE= (Jon @ Nov. 15 2002,22:50)][QUOTE= (Maroossia @ Nov. 15 2002,22:23)]Turn-off's (looks - physical)

1) A moustache and/or a beard.
2) Piercing (including earrings).
3) Golden teeth (it's for you, Jon http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif )
4) Hairy legs and arms (minor, depends on the rest...)
5) More than 2 jewelry pieces.
6) Ethnical clothes.
7) Thin voice.
8) Long hair.

There's more to follow about manners, habits and behaviour in general...

Jon

11-16-2002, 09:20 AM

Dear Katya,

Thanks for the great reply!!!! I was laughing so hard I almost knocked out a gold tooth!!!

They say you can dress a pig in new clothes, give it a bath, smother it in parfume (that's french), but it's still a pig.

Better to find a cow. You can have fresh milk and cheese everyday without those nasty flies hanging around.

http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/laugh.gif

Jon

katya

11-16-2002, 06:10 PM

Jon.. but it will not be intersting http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif
in every woman sitting little imp.
what we can do ? we don't need in simple win.

Maroossia

11-16-2002, 09:29 PM

Jon, we wouldn't be getting married in any way - age difference is too big, you know... But now I'm so eager to see your picture...

Jon

11-16-2002, 09:44 PM

Jon, we wouldn't be getting married in any way - age difference is too big, you know...
Hey, I'm only eighthy-six. What you don't like to know more about ancient mysteries? What's your age anyway? I never asked before...not that if matters to be friends...

http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/rock.gif

Jon

Jon

11-16-2002, 09:51 PM

OK, now more turn-off's:

1) Greedy
2) Too obsessed ...
3) Too easily gets carried away...
4) Too much of sex-talk ...
5) Smoking
6) Ever telling me about his ex's (unless I ask myself)
7) Unwillingness to excel...
8) Checking tactics towards me...
Wow another list...

But honey I have all those qualities...

I'm:

1) Greedy...I want you all to myself.
2) Too obsessed ...with sex.
3) Too easily gets carried away...with my gambling.
4) Too much of sex-talk...I have a telephone sex company.
5) Smoking -- remember I live in Holland, what else would I do.
6) Ever telling me about his ex's (unless I ask myself)...I only have four ex-wives.
7) Unwillingness to excel...I do really great at #'s 1-6.
8) Checking tactics towards me...I'm watching you now.

Well I guess we won't get married if you can't accept me for who I am...

Jon

Vicky

11-16-2002, 10:13 PM

Good to see people enjoying the talk http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif

You can get addicted to a portion of good laughter more than to any drug http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/tounge.gif

Maroossia

11-16-2002, 10:29 PM

And I'm fourteen, see now... For an ancient mistery you're still too young however...

Jon

11-16-2002, 10:41 PM

[QUOTE= (Maroossia @ Nov. 17 2002,01:29)]And I'm fourteen, see now... For an ancient mistery you're still too young however...

Maroossia

11-16-2002, 10:52 PM

so you're not a mystery any longer... couldn't see the golden teeth, however... http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/sad.gif

but, Jon, you seem to be too much obsessed with the uglypeople.com ..... is it a special turn-on for you? ... http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/tounge.gif

Jon

11-16-2002, 11:17 PM

[QUOTE= (Maroossia @ Nov. 17 2002,01:52)]so you're not a mystery any longer... couldn't see the golden teeth, however...

Jon

11-16-2002, 11:19 PM

[QUOTE= (Maroossia @ Nov. 17 2002,01:52)]so you're not a mystery any longer... couldn't see the golden teeth, however...

Jon

11-16-2002, 11:36 PM

For an ancient mistery...
Maroossia,

Did you mean ancient mysteries or ancient miseries? If you mean miseries then let me tell you about my ex-wife.... http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/mad.gif -- its an old story...

Jon

Vicky

11-17-2002, 01:56 AM

Sometimes a big turn-off for me is logic http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif Women rarely know how to think logically in its traditional meaning, our logic is very specific I'd say. But it turns me off (not physically of course) when I start telling things, and you might know how women tell things when they are full of emotions or want to share an idea they just got in some book, and a guy starts contradicting logically http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif I know I can't prove my point of view, too little of knowledge, and sometimes the topic does not allow to give any proofs, but I think - now can't you put your logic into a suitcase and hide it in a closet? That's a turn-off coz it stops me from speaking myself out.

liam

11-17-2002, 02:16 AM

G'day everyone,
Turn off's for me include,

girls who are constanly 'pawing' all over me

girls who are racist, homophobic,

girls who are obsessed with appearence, weight

girls who slag of all there ex-boyfriends (cos they'll probably say the same about me one day)

girls who have never, ever had a boyfriend

girls who are virgins (not so much a turn off, but equally frightening!!!!!!!)

girls who can't say no

girls who won't swal................

cheers, liam http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/tounge.gif http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/tounge.gif

katya

11-17-2002, 06:30 AM

Jon , if she is 14 , run from her fast! In my country you can have a lot of problems http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif wait one year

Jon

11-17-2002, 08:33 AM

[quote=Jon,Nov. 17 2002,01:41]
Jon , if she is 14 , run from her fast!

katya

11-17-2002, 08:55 PM

Hi , Jon!
Alabama is far from Holland http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif so

Jon

11-17-2002, 09:02 PM

[QUOTE= (katya @ Nov. 17 2002,23:55)]so

liam

11-17-2002, 09:05 PM

G'day,

Thats definatley true, Ive had some wild, crazy and downright bizzare nights out in amsterdam!! http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif

cheers

liam

Jon

11-17-2002, 09:27 PM

G'day,

Thats definatley true, Ive had some wild, crazy and downright bizzare nights out in amsterdam!! http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif

cheers

liam
Liam,

U-r right about Amsterdam. Anything goes...but I haven't been there for a couple of months. I found what was important to me in Ukraine.

Jon

Vicky

11-17-2002, 10:18 PM

Besides everything fantastic, crazy, and wild what I do remember about Holland is the smell of herring and disgusting pies full of fat (I forgot what they are called, but I couldn't eat more than a bite) http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/tounge.gif
Oh, and at the time I was there every ad booth was decorated with a post picturing a cow in leather http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/laugh.gif

katya

11-18-2002, 09:03 PM

yes? I was think , that it is country of sea and flowers. http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif

Jon

11-19-2002, 05:36 AM

[quote=Jon,Nov. 18 2002,00:27]
yes? I was think , that it is

katya

11-19-2002, 03:49 PM

I was tell you http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif))))

Vicky

11-19-2002, 04:33 PM

[quote=Jon,Nov. 18 2002,00:27]
yes? I was think , that it is

Jon

11-19-2002, 04:44 PM

[QUOTE= (katya @ Nov. 19 2002,00:03)][QUOTE= (Jon @ Nov. 18 2002,00:27)]
yes? I was think , that it is

Vicky

11-19-2002, 06:10 PM

Jon,

Ukraine? http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif

Jon

11-19-2002, 06:57 PM

Jon,

Ukraine? http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif
Vicky,

No, probably Spain or England? Maybe Paris or Luxemborge? Italy is nice in spring...who knows where I will be or with whom?

Galina wants me...what should I do???

Jon

katya

11-19-2002, 08:06 PM

[QUOTE= (Vicky @ Nov. 19 2002,21:10)]Jon,

Ukraine? http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif
Vicky,

No, probably Spain or England?

Vicky

11-19-2002, 10:27 PM

Jon,

you're hesitating back again? Now didn't we all here read that Galina is somehow the past of yours, in the sense of girlfriend relations, and you're so anxious to go and live with your Ukrainian friend? Can't say I understand the situation well. What do you mean she wants you? She wants you to go with her somewhere? And the Ukrainian?
I can't make any comparisons, and I won't, coz I'm sure I just didn't understand something, but a story comes into my mind. About a girl who wanted to marry a foreign guy. That guy came to SPB, they had couple of dates, in the last day they both came to my place and they were like two doves. I even left them alone for a while to let them part (no, nothing too private, after all it was my place). The girl cried, and the guy was close to it. They were discussing plans of how that girl would fast arrange a foreign passport and come to visit. Fine. In several weeks that guy called me and said - Vicky, while I was there in SPB, I met a nice woman, actually I didn't meet her, but a woman I was flying to SPB with told me she's got a beautiful niece and she would like to introduce us. Would you please call that woman and get the phone number of her niece or her e-mail?
I was a bit surprised. Well, not a bit. Very. But I didn't ask him - what about that girl you're were so tender with? I saw your touchy parting with her myself? You forgot her that fast? And, come on, you didn't even see that niece! I didn't say that. But found all this very very strange.

Jon

11-20-2002, 05:49 AM

Jon
with who ? http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif As I see, you know it .
and where ? it is question http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif[/quote]
Katya and Vicky,

I answered this question last night while I was wondering about why it was necessary for me to find a wife?

katya

12-01-2002, 09:15 PM

Jon...
your girl must be really angel http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif But , very pity , angels on the earth - rarity.
trust is very important. But , if you are't need in wife .. for what you tells girls , that you looking for her ?
they are need in husband http://datingtalk.info/non-cgi/emoticons/smile.gif
and trust is trust becouse you trust and not asking for proof. Or it is , or it isn't.